I blocked him after 2 days as i felt upset and annoyed as he did not explain why he was ignoring me. Before i give you the answer to the question “should i block my ex”, let me tell you that always carries a certain weight and it’s not something to do while angry or overly emotional.
I didn’t do it because i needed his friendship or anything, i did i.
Should i unblock him after a week. Messaging him is what he wants he needs to know you want contact but like i said do what you want you learn from your own mistakes not by people telling you what to do because you will always be thinking what if i did do what i wanted. I would unblock him and see if he comes around in a few days. I broke up with my ex over 7 months ago.
Hmm in my case after breaking up in march i thought august would be a good moment. I must be perfectly honest but i don’t know why you put so much emphasis on the whole “block” thing on social media. That was almost two years ago, and we never saw each other, spoke, or texted again.
After all of that settled down we started talking again, but then he backed off and pushed me away, he then ended things with me one weekend just after we made up 2 days before and he kicked me to the curb, almost a week later he comes back and wants to try again only for it to last another 2 weeks all because i asked him a question, then a. As already said, some men need more time, while others less. Wow if that is the case it took him 2 months to move on from me because he unblocked two months after the break up.
So i would like to give some context to my post. Yes, blocking somebody on social media might say a thing or two what he or she feels about you. I did it because i needed to move on since he was already moving on with someone else.
I am not going to beg for that”. Unfortunatly a week after he blocked me i contacted him saying i regret deleting him and breaking off contact. You should wait for him to initiate contact after 30 days.
I hate fall outs, am i best to unblock him? If the two of you have come to blows, chasing him further is just going to chase him away. March 9, 2020 at 2:08 pm #786983 reply.
So here is what you need to do now. He might unblock you after a week, a month, a couple of months, or even a year. I blocked him a few days after the break up.
After a few days i realised that giving him space would be great and after having read about no contact rule. I can only speak for myself but i. I have no desire to message him.
I can't help you much since i doesn't really know why you guys break up. If he doesn’t respond, you need to put up your patience here. I tried contacting him… not regularly but i did.
If he doesn’t want you in his life right now, get on with yours. You shouldn’t beg for his time, nor should you keep chasing him for it. It is very difficult to go into nc mode for 30days.
I want you to be mindful of the effect this move might have on him, on yourself, and your own personal growth. Since then he keeps posting daily things in a communal whatsapp group i'm part of. The last i contacted him was on 11th oct.
After that (which i got no reply, only got a “hey”) i decided to go into nc and it’ll be 4 weeks this sunday. Let him have some time to think and relax. Wait for a day or two.
Now, i’m not saying that you should wait for him to unblock you (even if it means waiting for ages). Call him once/twice (if he blocked your calls too, then try finding another alternative possible). I didn’t calculate it, i just felt somehow i’d like to connect with him.
Now i know many are going to say, why unblock him in the first place. When a guy blocks you, give him some space. Well, it was a mistake.
Thanks for the advice guys! From what you describe you can’t successfully reach out to him because he has trust issues that predate you and read to me as being very strong. I am a man so you know for a fact that i can bring you some very valuable insight when it comes to what men are thinking before, during and after no contact.now, i will be the first to admit that no woman has ever done a 30 day no contact rule on me but i have been on the receiving end of a half day, day and three day no contact rule and let me tell you that it drove me absolutely crazy.
If you haven’t heard from him in a week i would reach out and see if he has calmed down and wants to discuss what happened. I have little faith in time.but its been 25 days since the break up. After crying, talking, and crying a lot more, he left, and i closed the door behind him.
Whether you want to win him back or you just need clarity on what you want, following the no contact rule is a great way to have some space emotionally and physically after a breakup. November 7, 2014 at 2:12 pm #15094. If he doesn't contact you after 30days, please move on.
You wrote that you feel addicted to him, strongly wanting to reach out to him. You should talk with your girlfriends for support. No emotions, no feelings, just a general wishing of happiness.
Personally i would wait for 30days and unblock. The only reason to unblock someone is when you have fully moved on, and you view him as just someone you wish well. All i’m saying is that it’s possible and it’s very likely that it will happen.
He unblocked me on facebook last week after he blocked and deleted my number. I have no intention of contacting him but will have to see him a future functions with mutual friends. You can unblock me whenever your ego subsides.
Find out the benefits of stopping all communications with your ex so that you can heal yourself and move on, with or without him. It would be wrong maybe to be inconsistent with blocking: